In this respect Christianity is no
different. Perhaps we have the most programs on TV and the
most books in the bookstores, but we are still trying to
shout above everyone else that we have the ONLY message. And
we know we do. The problem is that to the outsider, we just
sound like another group clamoring for attention.
Our message is different, but no one
will care unless they see that our lives are different as
well. The old axiom “actions speak louder than words” rings
true here. We need to earn the right to be heard. There are
characteristics in our lives that will help us with this and
also any number of specific actions we can take to show that
we are different.
What can you do to earn the right to
be heard?
Character – Used car salesmen,
politicians, lawyers – what do these people have in common?
Most people don’t hold these in high regard because they are
viewed as untrustworthy or corrupt. If we are perceived to
lack character, people are less likely to believe what we
have to say. On the other hand, if people know us to have
outstanding character, they will be much more inclined to
listen to what is said.
Unfortunately we may have to overcome
the sins of our forefathers as well. If you mention the word
“televangelist” you might get a cringe. I cringe when I hear
the word. Because a couple of high profile people lacked
character two decades ago, preachers, particularly those on
TV have a tougher time getting people to believe their
message. The same has been done in recent years with
priests. Many outsiders couldn’t tell you the difference
between Protestant and Catholic, priest and pastor. As
foolish as it seems, pastors need to prove to some people
that they aren’t child molesters before they’ll be taken
seriously.
Competence – “Whether you eat
or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of
God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31. Our work ethic is a reflection on
God. That’s not to say anything against breaks and
vacations; God rested as an example for us. However, it is a
poor reflection on us and God if we are incompetent at our
work, whether that work is mowing our lawn or our
occupation.
If we had a guest speaker and he
showed up looking like he had slept in his clothes and had
just rolled out of bed how receptive would we be to his
message, regardless of content? Why?
We are the “guest speaker” in other people’s lives.
Competence has a lot to do with how we are perceived. When
you realize a person is competent, you are more likely to
listen to their message.
